Follow The Flow.

Who would've thought that adulting will be the longest & loneliest phase of your life right? It's been 5 months since I started this journey of traversing to the unknown & one thing that I constantly keep in mind is yeah, look at the title of this post, Follow The Flow. 

I wanna ask you all my fellow readers, have you ever had this one thought of pondering over how terrifying it is knowing the fact that time is moving so fast, so fast it's petrifying? I'm gonna ask you, there must be some particular memories for you that are still fresh, I mean you recall every detail from that specific moment because it's impactful/special to you, be it, whether that moment was five, ten or even fifteen years ago? You've come to the realization of how far you've came, smiling over the fact that you did it, surviving the long journey which has led you to becoming who you are today. 

It's indeed a long journey yeah? Let us all have a recap session shall we? We all have the journey of from using a pencil to now using a pen, from waking up in the morning feeling concerned about the friend sitting next to you might not attend school to waking up in the morning worrying about the traffic jam, from receiving duit raya to now giving them, from being provided with to now providing & the list goes on people. With all the transitions that we went through, look at us, here we are, still anticipating for what the world has to serve for us. I'm proud of you all, even for myself. You guys are doing great & please keep doing so.

Yeah, it's kinda devastating to realize that as we grow up, we might not have some time to spend with our family, friends or sometimes even for ourselves. What's constantly lingering in our mind is work, future plans & eventually, death. You like it or not, as you grow up, everything is going to disappear, one by one, slowly & surely which is a bitter pill to swallow. Everyone now has their own commitments, everyone's gonna get married, everyone's gonna achieve what they've been dreaming for & finally everyone's gonna get old & eventually gone. NGL, hearing news such as my bestfriends, especially high-school friends getting married never fails to surprise me. We literally grew up together & now you're about to become someone's responsibility. Looking back to all the times we've gone through, I'm so proud & emotional about it. All the memories we've had together are still indelible.

Still, at the end of the day, you're all alone in this journey of yours. People come & go, moments transpire & fades away. I always believe that every person & every moment has a purpose to why they came into our lives. Adulting for me is the ideal time for us to utilize what we've gained from the past years & at the same time keep learning/evolving. Again I emphasize, we all should be content & proud for coming this far. Remember this, your story will never end, even when you're dead because people will keep talking about you. So it's up to you whether you want it to be a spectacular story or the other way around because you are the author, you decide what happens next.

Friends, my piece of advice is to please, do what you love, buy all the things you've been wanting to get for yourselves, travel, keep learning or in brief live your life to the fullest because you're gonna get old & sit on that rocking chair, looking at all the old pictures while reminiscing all the memories from each picture. The key to having a good life? I'd say to always follow the flow. Hadap & layan jerr.

Aite thats all, be safe & takecare peeps. A. <3